Gaylene Croker
English Composition
5/7/2013
The Three Influences In My Life
While crossing the street to catch the school bus was a women behind me holding a sausage rolled up in a piece of toast. “You still have time to eat breakfast” she would say. She wore this pink robe with a tie in the front. Her shoulder length hair parted in the middle and she had these huge round oval glasses that made her blue eyes stand out even more. My mom was always concerned about how warm I was or if I was hungry. She would try to help me with my homework even when she didn’t quite understand. My mom came from a time when old fashion values were practiced and family was important. She new the things that embarrassed me and would try to respect that by saying, “I love you” before I reached my friends. How I wish she was here so I could yell how much I love her. Her ways are instilled in me and I feel blessed to have had a mother like her. I treat my children the same way. My father was a great parent also but it was my mother who molded my sister and I. She s been gone for eighteen years and she is still part of my everyday life.
Josie stands at a comfortable 5’3”. Her light green eyes and full smile has always complimented her. Even in the morning, her auburn colored hair doesn’t seem to get out of place. She always looks good. Josie would tell you otherwise. My wife is a strong woman who at times doesn’t know her own strength. I mean she can be a little outspoken at times with the best intentions of course. I’m usually the mild manner one except when I need to be heard. We compliment each other because of our opposite personalities. I feel that we have both changed a little over the last 25 years. If it wasn’t for my wife, my motivation to succeed in life would have possibly stopped by now. She has hung in there when times have been rough. Because of Josie, I keep going. I think anything I have accomplished, whether it was for a career change at the time or something on a personal level, she was there even when she was not aware of it.
Ant was a person I knew before we became good friends. He was this “cool cat” that stood out on stage when he was performing during events. His reputation was huge in the entertainment industry. This humble African American man would do amazing things that would catch the attention of everyone who was someone in the business. I got the privilege of knowing this man and his family on a personal level. I have performed for Anthony on many occasions. He taught me how the professional side of the industry works and gave me the confidence to move forward with a direction. He said to always stay humble and to never get to high on yourself. Although I thought I wanted to pursue a career in performance, I discovered something. I enjoy teaching children and young adults.
Kids need positive role models. They need cool activities to be involved with. My students do not have to be dancers or even interested in pursuing performance. If they gain the confidence and self esteem to be able to do the things they always wanted to try, then that’s good enough for me. Being on stage is great, but giving a child self confidence is a reward within itself.